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12/29/25: Once Again, a Whole Lot of Hoopla, and a Gigantic Letdown

But why would anyone have expected anything else, when Donald Trump’s meeting at Mar-a-Lago with Volodymyr Zelensky was — yet again — preceded by an hour-long phone call to Vladimir Putin?


Everyone knows that Trump’s thought processes are always influenced by the last person he talked to. So he went into the meeting — bolstered by his army of attack dogs, including Marco Rubio, Pete Hegseth, and Stephen Miller — with Putin’s words ringing in his ears.

Not surprisingly, although both sides emerged from the three-hour session spouting the usual banal assurances that progress had been made, and that — in Trump’s words — “ . . . we’re getting a lot closer, maybe very close,” they were still a long way from a resolution to the Russia-Ukraine conflict.

Confusingly, Trump also said:

“I think we’re in the very final stages of talking, and we’re going to see. It’ll either end or it’s going to go on for a long time, and millions of additional people are going to be killed.” [Kevin Liptak, CNN, December 28, 2025.]

As clear as mud . . . as usual. But I suppose he was hoping to sound reassuring when he added:

“There are one or two very thorny issues, very tough issues, but I think we’re doing very well. We’ve made a lot of progress today, but really we’ve made it over the last month. This is not a one-day process deal, this [is] very complicated stuff. It’s possible it doesn’t happen. In a few weeks, we’ll know one way or another.” [Id.]

“Translation, please?”

Zelensky, on the other hand, remained concerned about future security guarantees, saying:

“Without security guarantees, this war cannot be considered truly over. We cannot acknowledge that it has ended, because with such a neighbour there remains a risk of renewed aggression.” [Bernd Debusmann, Jr. and Harry Sekulich, BBC, December 29, 2025.]

And, as if to prove Zelensky’s point — while Christmas bombardments continued unabated in Kyiv and elsewhere in Ukraine — Russian Foreign Minister Sergei Lavrov claimed today that Ukraine had targeted one of Putin’s several residences, and that Moscow would be retaliating and further reviewing its stance in the negotiations.

While Zelensky called Lavrov’s statement a lie, saying that it was a tactic to undermine the peace talks and provide an excuse to continue its strikes on Ukrainian territory, Donald Trump once again chose to believe his friend Putin. He said that he had learned about the alleged attack from Putin himself, that it had made him “very angry” at this “very delicate time.” He pointed out his earlier refusal to provide Ukraine with long-distance Tomahawk missiles, saying:

“It’s one thing to be offensive, because they’re offensive. It’s another thing to attack his house. It’s not the right time to do any of that.” [RFE/RL, December 29, 2025.]

I wonder how the thousands of Ukrainians who have lost their homes to Russia’s missiles and drones over the past four years would feel about that.


In the meantime, as Ukraine, Europe and the U.S. scramble to schedule further talks on a wide variety of outstanding issues, Putin maintains his rock-solid refusal to compromise . . . and continues to pursue his unchecked killing spree.

And we enter another year with peace looking less and less likely in the foreseeable future.

Just sayin’ . . .

Brendochka
12/29/25

12/29/25: Quote of the Day: From His Mouth . . .

My Bubbe (grandmother) had a lot of colorful old-world sayings. One of my favorites was her standby when anyone spoke hopefully or optimistically about some future event: “From your mouth to God’s ears.” Once she had added her blessing, I was absolutely certain that everything would turn out well.

Their paths never crossed — they were from different lands, and he died when she was just a baby — but had my Bubbe met Alfred Lord Tennyson, I’m sure she would have had the perfect response to his New Year’s wish:

“Hope
Smiles from the threshold of the year to come,
Whispering ‘it will be happier’ . . .”

– Tennyson, “The Foresters”

Alfred Lord Tennyson

I can almost hear my Bubbe now, in her warm, fragrant kitchen, whispering, “From his mouth to God’s ears.” And, while I no longer retain that childish certainty, I still hold out hope that everything will indeed work out for the best. Because she said so.

My Bubbe (C. 1940s)

Just sayin’ . . .

Brendochka
12/29/25

12/29/25: Where Have All the Oligarchs Gone?

I’m talking about the Russian oligarchs (not the Washington Billionaires’ Club) — the ones who made their first millions from the economic chaos that followed the breakup of the Soviet Union 34 years ago this week, thereby gaining tremendous political influence under newly-anointed President Boris Yeltsin.

Boris Berezovsky and Vladimir Gusinsky

Among the biggest of the big shots in those early days of Russian-style capitalism were Boris Berezovsky, Mikhail Khodorkovsky, Mikhail Fridman, Vladimir Gusinsky, Vladimir Potanin and Roman Abramovich. Among them, they gained control of the most profitable major industries, including oil and gas, metals, banking, and the media. Wisely, they tied themselves to Yeltsin’s apron strings, for his financial benefit as well as their own.

Then along came Vladimir Putin. Having worked his way up from his years in the KGB, to a position as aide to reformist St. Petersburg Mayor Anatoly Sobchak, and then through the ranks of the Yeltsin hierarchy, he was perfectly situated as Prime Minister to step in when Yeltsin resigned the presidency on December 31, 1999. Serving as interim president until an election could be held the following March, his victory was practically assured — as it has been in every election since.

But despite his years with Sobchak, Putin was no reformer, as we now know all too well. And life for the oligarchs began to change when Putin informed them in no uncertain terms that they would be allowed to keep their fortunes and conduct their businesses . . . as long as they understood that he, and only he, was in charge of the government.

And some have continued to thrive by staying on Putin’s good side. For example:

> Mikhail Fridman, 61, was a co-founder of Alfa Bank, and remains a member of numerous Russian organizations, including the National Council of Corporate Governance in Russia and the Russian Union of Industrialists and Entrepreneurs. As of 2024, Bloomberg listed his net worth at approximately $13.1 billion.

Mikhail Fridman

> Vladimir Potanin, 64, is founder and president of Interros, which holds stakes in MMC Norilsk Nickel, Rosbank, Yandex, and others. He is said to be Russia’s fifth-richest businessman; Forbes estimates his net worth at $24.2 billion.

Vladimir Potanin

> Roman Abramovich, 59, is one of the most widely known of this little group today. He once owned London’s Chelsea Football Club, though he was forced to sell it in 2022 due to sanctions imposed after Putin’s invasion of Ukraine. He is said to have a good relationship with Putin, though he denies it, and has even been labeled by U.S. intelligence sources as Putin’s financial middleman. In 2023, Forbes estimated his net worth at $9.2 billion.

Roman Abramovich

Others haven’t been quite so lucky.

> Mikhail Khodorkovsky, 62, once thought to be the wealthiest man in Russia, ran afoul of Putin in 2001 when he founded Open Russia, a reform-minded organization aimed at strengthening civil society in Russia. In 2003, his assets were frozen and he was imprisoned. After serving ten years, he was pardoned in 2013 and immediately left Russia, obtaining residency in Switzerland. He later moved to London, and continues to work, both independently and in conjunction with other exiles, in opposition to the Putin regime. Though he is no longer the multi-billionaire he had been in Russia — thought to have been worth around $15 billion from his energy and other holdings — he is still worth an estimated $170 million or more. But he knows that, at least as long as Vladimir Putin sits in the Kremlin, he can never go home again.

Mikhail Khodorkovsky

> Vladimir Gusinsky,73, is also living in exile due to legal problems in Russia. His original multi-billion-dollar fortune was largely derived from his media holdings, including Media-Most (which includes the NTV channel), the Sevodnya newspaper, and a number of magazines. He now enjoys both Israeli and Spanish citizenship, and has considerable investments in both countries. While his net worth is unknown, he did sell his remaining media assets in Russia for $300 million before fleeing in 2000, and it can be assumed that he has built on that in the past 25 years. Still, like Khodorkovsky, he has been forced to leave behind his homeland and the political and professional status he once enjoyed.

Vladimir Gusinsky

> Boris Berezovsky is unquestionably the saddest case of all. One of the original oligarchs, he had been a government official, an engineer and mathematician, and a member of the illustrious Russian Academy of Sciences. In 1997, he was estimated to have accrued holdings of $3 billion, primarily from Russia’s main TV channel, Channel One. But his foray into politics was his downfall. After initially backing Putin’s election, and himself being elected to the State Duma, Berezovsky opposed Putin’s increasingly autocratic rule, resigned from the Duma, and joined the vocal opposition. Under threat of investigation, he fled Russia for the UK in 2000, where he was granted political asylum. But he was dogged by personal problems and financial losses, and was found, at the age of 67 on March 23, 2013, hanged in the bathroom of his Berkshire home. Nearly bankrupt, he had reportedly become depressed and isolated. But his death was classified by police as “unexplained” due to questionable findings by investigators and a pathologist. The final inquest resulted in an “open verdict,” with a statement by the coroner saying: “I am not saying Mr Berezovsky took his own life, I am not saying Mr Berezovsky was unlawfully killed. What I am saying is that the burden of proof sets such a high standard it is impossible for me to say.” [en.wikipedia.org.]

Boris Berezovsky

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Today, it is estimated that there may be as many as 100 oligarchs in Russia, many of them billionaires. Despite sanctions since the start of the war in Ukraine, they continue to live their sumptuous lives . . . as long as they pledge fealty to Vladimir Putin. What they lack — what the first oligarchs enjoyed to the fullest — is political power. But they no longer seem to care.

Which sounds very much like billionaires around the world.


Just sayin’ . . .

Brendochka
12/29/25

12/28/25: A Little Bit of Feedback … But Not Much

Well, at least my worst fears were not realized: Volodymyr Zelensky left Mar-a-Lago visibly unscathed, and on a somewhat hopeful note.

Meeting at Mar-a-Lago – December 28, 2025

According to Ukrainian journalist Vitaly Shevchenko, speaking to BBC News, Zelensky indicated that his latest 20-point proposal has been 90% guaranteed . . . though he didn’t say which 10% remained at issue. Presumably, that would involve Russia’s territorial claims on the Donbas and Zaporizhzhia regions, and the possibility of establishing a demilitarized zone (DMZ) or special economic zone along the Ukraine-Russia border.

University of Southern California Professor Robert English told the BBC that he felt the parties were trying hard to be optimistic in the face of the major sticking points not yet agreed to, but that there remained a good deal of work to be done.

And speaking alongside Zelensky on CNN, Donald Trump — well, he was just being Trump. He said they had made “a lot of progress,” and “had discussions on just about every subject,” including in his pre-meeting phone call with Vladimir Putin. He then added — taking on his real identity as a hotelier — that they had had a nice lunch, and hoped Zelensky had enjoyed the food.

To which the Ukrainian President — in Florida for the sole purpose of saving what is left of his country and not for the food — sidestepped that little non sequitur, instead reiterating that Ukraine is ready for peace. And he wisely remembered to thank Trump again for all of his efforts . . . but stopped short of genuflecting.

After the Meeting: Still Smiling

So there we are, without sufficient details on which to base a forecast, or even a guess, as to what we might expect from all of this year-end effort. There is, of course, still the post-meeting call to be held between Trump and Putin, which I doubt will hold many surprises in view of Putin’s immovable demands and his refusal even to agree on a ceasefire during negotiations.

And as we await the results of that upcoming talk, I can’t help visualizing that conversation taking place between a Russian Dr. Strangelove, with his finger on the nuclear button, and an American version of an innkeeper named Thenardier (from Les Miserables), “relieving” his guests of whatever he could get his grubby little hands on.

Such is the world we now inhabit. But how on earth did we allow it to get to this point?


Just sayin’ . . .

Brendochka
12/28/25

12/28/25: What We Need Is Another Yalta Conference

In February of 1945, the leaders of Great Britain, the United States and the Soviet Union — Sir Winston Churchill, Franklin Delano Roosevelt and Josef Stalin — met at Yalta on the Black Sea coast of the Crimean Peninsula to discuss the final stages of World War II and the postwar reorganization of Europe. By May 8th, the war in Europe was over.

Church, Roosevelt and Stalin at Yalta – February 1945

Today, Ukrainian President Volodymyr Zelensky has arrived in Palm Beach, Florida, for yet another meeting with Donald Trump. And once again, Trump chose to precede the meeting with a one-on-one, hour-long phone call to Vladimir Putin — presumably to gauge whether there has been any modification of Putin’s position regarding settlement of his so-called “special military operation” in Ukraine, but more likely to solidify their own agreement on how to convince Zelensky to accede to Putin’s principal territorial and security demands.

And — in sharp contrast to the gathering of equals at Yalta — this is what Zelensky has walked into:

The American Inquisition

Instead of the tripartite meeting he has been requesting — which Putin has steadfastly refused — Zelensky has once more been led into a viper’s nest of eight venomous reptiles hell-bent to claim credit for ending an unjust war, regardless of the ultimate cost to the victims or the future security of Europe.

Aligned against Zelensky, in addition to Trump (fourth from left, with his chin characteristically stuck up in the air), were Secretary of State Marco Rubio; Secretary of Defense Pete Hegseth; special envoy (and real estate mogul) Steve Witkoff; Trump son-in-law (and fellow real-estate guru) Jared Kushner; Chairman of the Joint Chiefs of Staff Dan Caine; General Services Administration’s federal acquisitions service commissioner Josh Gruenbaum (for whatever reason); and — most poisonous of all — White House deputy chief of staff for policy Stephen Miller (second from right, glaring menacingly at the photographer).

That is what passes for diplomacy at Mar-a-Lago.

The day is far from over, and anything could happen. I will, of course, be following events closely; but at the moment, I don’t have a good feeling about this.


Just sayin’ . . .

Brendochka
12/28/25

12/28/25: Quote of the Day: Some Unintended Humor

In the spirit of the approaching New Year, and as promised yesterday, I’ve decided to focus on the positive and have been searching for quotes that are optimistic, uplifting, and perhaps even humorous.

Benjamin Franklin

Today, my eye landed on the words of Benjamin Franklin: a man well-known, not only for his statesmanship, but for his mischievous sense of humor as well . . . though in this case, I’m quite sure it is my own, often diabolical and sometimes even twisted, interpretation that sees the funny side of this:

Be at war with your vices, at peace with your neighbors, and let every new year find you a better man.”


What Ben meant, of course, was that you should become a better person in the new year.

But my immediate reaction was: “Yes, please! I’ve been looking for a better man for years, and haven’t found him yet.”


Either way, I think Ben’s sentiment is a good one for 2026 . . . especially after what we’ve all been through in 2025.

Just sayin’ . . .

Brendochka
12/28/25

12/28/25: Putin’s Hostages – Bring Them Home, Week 103: A Prayer for the New Year

This week, as the calendar moves inexorably toward a new year, mankind once again hopes against all reason that January 1st will somehow, magically, cure all of our ills, heal our wounds from the horrors of the past 12 months, and bring peace and joy to a world reeling from the effects of man’s inhumanity to man.


Admittedly, those hopes are illogical — as naive, perhaps, as the New Year’s resolutions we continue to make each year; but they somehow give us the strength to face another year of uncertainty, for none of us can know what lies ahead. And, while I no longer bother with a list of resolutions I know I won’t keep beyond the second week of January, I do still have my hopes for the world in general.

At the top of that list, as it has been for the past two years, is my prayer that the political hostages being held by Vladimir Putin and his allies will at long last be freed from the prisons and penal colonies and returned to the comfort of their homes and their families; and that the constant threat of war under which the world has been living will be eased, allowing reason and true diplomacy to regain a foothold.

And to that end, here they are again . . . the hostages known to me who are still waiting for their prayers to be answered:

*. *. *

Europeans Under Threat:

The people of NATO and EU member states

Prisoners of War:

The 19,500 Kidnapped Ukrainian Children
The People of Ukraine

Immigrant Detainees in Russia:

Migrants from the Central Asian nations of Kazakhstan, Kyrgyzstan,
Tajikistan, Turkmenistan and Uzbekistan

Endangered Exiles:


Mikita Losik
Yulia Navalnaya
Countless Journalists and Other Dissidents

Political Prisoners:

In Azerbaijan:

The “Azerbaijan 7”:
— Farid Mehralizada
— Ulvi Hasanli
— Sevinj Abbasova (Vagifqiai)
— Mahammad Kekalov
— Hafiz Babali
— Nargiz Absalamova
— Elnara Gasimova

In Belarus:

Andrei Chapiuk
Uladzimir Labkovich
Andrzej Poczobut
Marfa Rabkova
Valiantsin Stafanovic
Yuras Zyankovich

In Georgia:

Mzia Amaglobeli

In China:

Chenyue Mao (American)

In Russia:

The “Crimea 8”:
— Oleg Antipov
— Artyom Azatyan
— Georgy Azatyan
— Aleksandr Bylin
— Roman Solomko
— Artur Terchanyan
— Dmitry Tyazhelykh
— Vladimir Zloba

James Scott Rhys Anderson (British)
David Barnes (American)
Gordon Black (American)
Hayden Davies (British)
Antonina Favorskaya
Konstantin Gabov
Robert Gilman (American)
Stephen James Hubbard (American)
Sergey Karelin
Timur Kishukov
Vadim Kobzev
Darya Kozyreva
Artyom Kriger
Michael Travis Leake (American)
Aleksei Liptser
Grigory Melkonyants
Nika Novak
Leonid Pshenychnov (in Russian-occupied Crimea)
Nadezhda Rossinskaya (a.k.a. Nadin Geisler)
Sofiane Sehili (French)
Igor Sergunin
Dmitry Shatresov
Robert Shonov
Grigory Skvortsov
Eugene Spector (American)
Laurent Vinatier
Robert Romanov Woodland (American)

. . . and, of course, the thousands whose names and locations are unknown to me.

*. *. *

With this, my last Sunday tribute of 2025 to the world’s political hostages, I wish each and every one of you strength, hope, and a joyous end to your travails as you return to the embrace of your families and friends. May you all have a truly Happy New Year.

Just sayin’ . . .

Brendochka
12/28/25

12/27/25: Watch This Space

Since I started this blog some three years ago, I have shared 1,916 posts with you (1,917 including this one). It started out as a sort of autobiographical travelog of the more adventurous years of my life, and morphed into a conglomeration of topics from world events, to memories of my childhood, to a mischievous sea otter named Laverna.

The Infamous Laverna

Always on the search for something new, I’ve decided to usher in 2026 with a New Year’s Day retrospective of my posts of the past year — not all of them, certainly, but a couple of the highlights from each month — as a reminder of what we have all experienced, and somehow survived, over the past 52 weeks.

So that’s what I’ll be working on for the next few days, in addition to keeping abreast of the daily news. Wish me luck . . . there’s a lot of material to go through. (Not nearly as much, of course, as the Epstein files; but at least I don’t have to deal with all the redactions.)

“Oh, those funny, funny people at the Justice Department!”

Just sayin’ . . .

Brendochka
12/27/25

12/27/25: Quote(s) of the Day #2: Do Not Read Kafka If You’re Already Depressed

In fact, do not read Kafka even if you’re not depressed . . . because if you’re not, and you do, you soon will be.

Franz Kafka (1883-1924)

I was thinking yesterday about my idyllic summer of 1991 in Prague, which is when — along with the incredible history, architecture, culture, food and beverages of Czechoslovakia (now Czechia, or simply the Czech Republic) — I first became interested in the writings of Franz Kafka, perhaps the most famous of all Czech writers.

I wondered at the time how anyone who only lived to the age of 40 could have sunk so deeply into despair as to produce such dark, often dystopian works of fiction as “The Metamorphosis” and “The Trial” . . . until I learned that his writing was most heavily influenced by Dostoevsky, Nietschze, and Poe — great writers all, but not exactly uplifting.

Fyodor Dostoevsky

And today of all days — when many people are already suffering from an annual case of post-holiday letdown — I should have known better than to go searching for a quote from Kafka. But, perversely, I did it anyway. What I was looking for was actually something to do with thoughts of the future, in keeping with the approach of a new year. But what I found instead were these:

“I write differently from what I speak, I speak differently from what I think, I think differently from the way I ought to think, and so it all proceeds into deepest darkness.”

“I cannot make you understand. I cannot make anyone understand what is happening inside me. I cannot even explain it to myself.”


“I have spent all my life resisting the desire to end it.”

. . . and, just for kicks, his immortal:

“The Meaning of life is that it stops.”


“Good grief!”

While I hesitate to approach the end of the year on such a demoralizing note, it has, after all, been the shittiest of years; and so it’s probably a suitable choice . . . in a rather dystopian, Kafkaesque way.

Perhaps I’ll have something a little cheerier tomorrow . . . say, from Eleanor Roosevelt, or Erma Bombeck. In the meantime, I’m . . .

Just sayin’ . . .

Brendochka
12/27/25