My darling girl, my little soulmate. An old soul . . . a true anachronism. Brilliant, yet naive; wise beyond your years, though inexperienced; caring and giving, but never satisfied with yourself. Overflowing with love . . . and with demons that we could not understand.
Mothers Day 1997 – 20 months old – with Nana
Again tonight, for the fourth year, we mark our loss by lighting our Yahrzeit candles for you. The light and joy you brought to our lives will never be extinguished.
Mothers Day 2000 – A big 4-year-old, with Nate and “Onnie”
Our pride in you — in your remarkable strength and courage as you fought your childhood battles and lifelong struggles — is undiminished. And the imprint you left on all of those who were privileged to know you will be felt throughout their generations.
A Beautiful Young Woman
Rest well, my sweet girl. I miss you beyond words.
These days, many of us find ourselves contemplating the nature and extent of man’s inhumanity to man, and wondering how anyone could be capable of such extreme cruelty.
As it turns out, the answer may be obvious — at least, according to ancient Rome’s Stoic philosopher, statesman and dramatist, Lucius Annaeus Seneca the Younger, better known simply as Seneca, who wrote:
“All cruelty springs from weakness.”
– Seneca, “Seneca’s Morals: Of a Happy Life, Benefits, Anger and Clemency”
Seneca (c. 4 B.C. – 65 A.D.)
Applying that theory to the handful of leaders causing most of the misery in the world today, I can see Seneca’s point. Yet those same people have somehow managed to attain positions of power over the rest of us. So was he speaking of their weakness of character . . . or of ours, in having allowed them to prevail?
It’s as though he’s been reading my mind . . . or my blog.
Arend Feenstra – Ontario, Canada – March 12, 2026
In a post on April 6th, Arend Feenstra finally addressed a number of the questions that have been on my mind since he and his family left Russia for an extended stay back in Canada. And it seems that a number of other followers of the Feenstra clan have been thinking along the same lines.
In this latest video — in which Arend mentions that it was being filmed on March 12th — he finally talks about the main reason for the trip, how all of the children are doing, and their plans for the immediate and long-term future.
What it all comes down to, as he explains it, is money. Stressing that they receive no subsidies from the Russian government, he says that they have thus far been living off of their savings — which obviously won’t last forever.
(I might interject here that they have previously indicated other minor sources of income in Russia, such as the sale of some of their farm products; and it seems likely that they receive payment for advertising various products and commercial enterprises on their video broadcasts. But it’s probably not enough to sustain a family of ten.)
At any rate, it seems that, for all of its perceived advantages, Russia is not an easy place in which to earn an honest living. Despite the cost of their months-long visit to Canada and the U.S. — the round-trip plane fare alone cost $25,000 — he says he has been able to earn enough by working nearly non-stop to cover the costs and build up a little nest-egg to carry them through until they begin earning a profit from their farm in Nizhny Novgorod.
Enjoying Christmas in Canada
He began by working on his brother’s farm in Ontario. Even throughout the family’s road trip through the U.S., he was able to work from time to time for various friends and acquaintances along the way. And two of the older children — Cora and Wes — remained back in Ontario, working to earn a bit more money for the family. Now Arend is working for a friend who has a contract doing major renovations to a hospital, including plumbing, electrical and insulation work.
In response to inquiries from viewers, he said that the younger children, who are home-schooled, have been keeping up with their studies while on this journey. He feels that home schooling has numerous advantages over regular schooling, and he may be correct. But realistically, his children may not even be eligible to enter Russian schools as yet, based on their residency status, language proficiency, and other requirements.
A Russian Elementary School
Then he put to rest any questions his viewers might have about the family’s return to Russia, assuring us that they can’t wait to get home to their farm, that they love living in Russia, and that their decision to move there was “the best thing we could have done.”
And he took the opportunity to compare life in Canada today to life in Russia. According to what he has observed and heard during their stay, some 80 percent of Canadians are just $200 away from being broke, with many people now living in their cars, and some 50 percent borrowing money to buy groceries. He did not cite a source for those figures, which sound a bit exaggerated to me. He did say — which makes more sense — that the gap between rich and poor in Canada is widening, with the cost of living increasing and wages not keeping pace. However, that seems to be the case throughout the world.
What he didn’t mention was that, by all indications, the same is true in Russia. Indeed, he said that people in Russia actually have more disposable income, and that, while there are of course some poor people, there is a much larger middle class. (Again, from all reliable reports, I would question that.)
And in a message to people in Russia and elsewhere who might still think of North America as a better place to live, he said that — while that was once the case — it’s no longer true.
Conversely, he said that he has met a lot of people during the past few months who are interested in moving to Russia, because life here has become what he called “unsustainable.” So it seems that he has continued on his mission to do a bit of proselytizing along the way.
An Elementary School in Ontario, Canada
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What is my take from all of this? Basically, it’s the same as it has been for the two years that I’ve been following the Feenstras’ progress: that, while they may have had valid personal reasons for wanting to leave Canada, their choice of a new home was not a good one.
Russia is, always has been, and — at least for the foreseeable future — will continue to be a country ruled by autocrats and tyrants, where freedom is not by any means guaranteed but is subject to the whim of one man, and where the rules change without notice.
It is also, now, a country at war, with a tenuous economy; under punishing sanctions by most of the free world; and boasting a paranoid political pariah named Putin at the head of the government.
But Arend summed up their decision by saying that “God has a plan for us to be there, whatever he has in store.”
Earlier today I wrote — but had not yet published — the following:
“In the face of Donald Trump’s insane threat to wipe out the entire nation of Iran, why hasn’t the U.S. military honored its own mandate and simply refused to obey such a blatantly illegal — not to mention, immoral — order?
Seriously . . . I’m asking . . . WHY??!!!
What’s he gonna do — fire everyone?”
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Then I read this:
“Wiping out an entire civilization is the definition of genocide. Any order given to that effect must be refused by every service member up and down the chain — period. This is exactly what senators were talking about when they issued a video saying illegal orders must be refused. Now it may be time for service members to follow their recommendation.”
– Major General Paul Eaton (US Army, Ret.)
Thank you, General, for your courage, your service . . . and, on a personal note, your validation of my thoughts. Now, if those in active service would only follow your lead.
I can only conclude that Viktor Orban must secretly be hoping to lose the election on April 12th. Certainly, no one who really wants to succeed would invite JD Vance to support his campaign.
Vance and Orban: A Losing Combination
But that is precisely what Orban has done. For 16 years, he has served as Hungary’s Prime Minister, positioning himself between his good friend Vladimir Putin to the east, and his supposed ally to the west, Donald Trump. But this year, after four consecutive victories, Orban is trailing his principal opponent Peter Magyar in the polls, and appears likely to suffer a resounding defeat in his fifth round.
Putin has been attempting to sway the Hungarian vote in Orban’s direction, bombarding the country with political propaganda and his usual grab bag of dirty tricks, but to little or no avail.
And now, in a pathetic attempt to help his autocratic pal retain his position, Trump has sent JD Vance — hardly America’s best-loved ambassador of good will — to add his support.
Appearing with Orban, Vance said that he had come to Budapest “to help him in this campaign cycle” . . . and then immediately added that the U.S. would “work with whoever wins this election.” [Paul Kirby and Nick Thorpe, BBC, April 7, 2026.]
Wow! That is some ringing endorsement!
To further impress the electorate, Vance launched into a diatribe against the European Union — of which Hungary is a member — accusing the EU of conducting “one of the worst examples of foreign election interference that I have ever seen or ever even read about . . . because they hate this guy.” He then added that “part of the reason” for his visit was because “interference that’s come from the bureaucracy in Brussels has been truly disgraceful.” [Id.]
(Of course, Vance managed to omit mentioning that the reason the EU “hates” Orban might have something to do with the fact that Hungary’s envoy to the EU has been discovered feeding confidential information from their closed meetings directly to Moscow. But why bother with such details?)
Orban and Putin: Soulmates
In a glowing example of double-speak, Vance spoke later at an Orban campaign rally, offering this:
“We want you to make a decision about your future with no outside forces pressuring you or telling you what to do. I’m not telling you exactly who to vote for but what I am telling you is that the bureaucrats in Brussels, those people [the EU] should not be listened to.” [Id.]
And — while he wasn’t telling them “exactly who to vote for” — he closed with this:
“ … go to the polls in the weekend, stand with Viktor Orban, because he stands for you.” [Id.]
Yeah . . . that’s “not telling them,” JD!
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Now, I’m not a politician — never have been, never wanted to be. But I do know one thing: If I were ever to run for any office, no matter how insignificant, the very last person I would want on my team would be . . .
There is not much about Donald Trump — or, for that matter, anyone in his administration — that I find amusing. (There is nothing funny about witnessing an individual’s mental and physical deterioration.) But I’m reasonably certain the neighbors heard me yesterday when I collapsed in a frenzy of maniacal laughter after reading this on Facebook.
This was Trump on one of his delusional rants about Venezuela:
“Now with Venezuela, and we — Just so you understand, the people of Venezuela . . . They say if I ran for president of Venezuela, I’m polling higher than anybody has ever polled in Venezuela, so after I’m finished with this [Iran War], I can go to Venezuela. I will quickly learn Spanish. It won’t take too long. I’m good at language. And I will go to Venezuela, I’m gonna run for president.” [Post by Occupy Democrats, April 6, 2026.] [Bold emphasis is mine.]
It was unclear whether Trump was serious or joking about running for a presidency for which he is obviously ineligible; it’s often hard to tell whether he’s compos mentis at any given moment. But somewhere in the depths of his twisted, narcissistic brain, he probably does believe that he is scoring off the charts in some non-existent poll, and that he could “quickly learn Spanish” because he is so “good at language.”
This, from an 80-year-old man who can barely speak English.
“I have the best words”
His utterances truly boggle the mind. But at least — amidst all the horror of his daily proclamations — I was able to enjoy a few minutes of good, therapeutic laughter from this one . . . and I suspect I was not alone.
Hungary’s elections are scheduled on April 12th, just five days from now.
Incumbent Viktor Orban — the hard-right, Putin-friendly autocrat who has served as Prime Minister for the past 16 years — and his Fidesz Party are lagging further and further behind the opposition Tisza Party, led by Peter Magyar.
Vladimir Putin has not hidden the fact that he is making every effort to support Orban’s reelection . . . even to the point of trying to stage a fake attempt on Orban’s life, for which the opposition could then be blamed.
On Sunday, April 5th, Serbian military and police officers found a cache of explosives and detonators near a pipeline that carries Russian natural gas from Turkey to Hungary. The two backpacks were located “a few hundred meters” from the Balkan Stream pipeline in Kanjiza, near the Hungarian border in northern Serbia. [RFE/RL’s Balkan Service, April 5, 2026.]
Serbia’s president, Aleksandar Vucic, is another right-wing autocrat friendly to both Russia and China, while also favoring his country’s accession to the EU.
Viktor Orban and Aleksandar Vucic
So what does all of this mean? Were the explosives, when detonated, intended to cause harm to the Serbian regime? To halt or delay Russia’s gas exports? To point a finger at Ukraine, whom Orban has accused of delaying repairs to its Druzhba pipeline since it was damaged in a fire caused by Russian attacks on Ukrainian facilities?
Or was it meant to lay blame on Orban’s opponent, Peter Magyar?
According to Vucic:
“We have clues. … I just finished talking to Viktor Orban. It’s obvious that geopolitical games will not leave us alone.” [Id.]
“We think we know which group the individuals who were supposed to take that final step in activating the explosives belong to. The intention was to send a political message. We will severely punish anyone we catch.” [Id.]
Peter Magyar
Orban, who has already alleged that Ukraine is trying to trigger an energy crisis ahead of Hungary’s elections, traveled to the border on Monday, April 6th, to inspect the infrastructure that he claims was the target of a foiled sabotage attempt, saying:
“Yesterday they wanted to blow up the gas pipeline. We are checking whether everything is in order on the Hungarian side.” [RFE/RL’s Balkan Service, April 6, 2026.]
And at an emergency session of Hungary’s Defense Council, he said that Ukraine had “for years been trying to cut Europe off from Russian energy.” [Id.]
“This is most likely a Russian false-flag operation, as part of Moscow’s strong interference in the Hungarian elections.” [Id.[
To which Kremlin spokesman Dmitry Peskov predictably responded that there was “no reliable evidence” as to who was responsible, but suggested that Ukraine might be involved in light of its past attacks on Russian energy infrastructure. [Id.]
Kremlin Spokesman Dmitry Peskov
But perhaps the most surprising comment came from Djuro Jovanic, Director of Serbia’s Military Security Agency (VBA), who said that:
“ . . . it is not true that Ukrainians tried to organize this sabotage. Based on the markings on the explosives, it is unmistakably clear that the manufacturer is from the United States. Now, will someone suggest that the United States would benefit from this situation at this moment?” [Id.]
Jovanic then claimed that an immigrant with military training was the likely perpetrator . . . which brought an immediate rebuttal from Srdjan Cvijic of the Belgrade Center for Security Policy:
“Our authorities do not dare to openly accuse Ukraine, so they invent some supposed migrants instead, conveniently fitting into Orban’s anti-migrant rhetoric”; adding that the incident smacked of “all the core narratives of Russian disinformation being promoted in this part of Europe”; and that the Serbian government’s handling of the matter. pointed to “an intention to help a friend — Orban — in trouble.” [Id.]
If you’re confused at this point, don’t worry — you’re not alone.
Someone obviously does know who was behind this, and whether the purpose was to detonate the explosives and do actual damage, or simply to create another political red herring. But with everyone lobbing accusations at everyone else, opening up so many possible scenarios, only the players themselves know for sure who is doing what to whom and why.
My money says it was politically motivated to help Orban; though whether instigated by him or by Putin — and whether Vucic was a willing accessory or an unwitting dupe — is, for the moment, at least, a mystery.
For the handful of people in the universe who may not already have seen or heard this — possibly including the crew of Artemis II, who are otherwise preoccupied, and anyone under the age of six or in a coma — here it is, verbatim, as posted on Easter Sunday morning for the whole world to marvel at:
“Tuesday will be Power Plant Day, and Bridge Day, all wrapped up in one, in Iran. There will be nothing like it!!! Open the Fuckin’ Strait, you crazy bastards, or you’ll be living in Hell — JUST WATCH! Praise be to Allah. President DONALD J. TRUMP
– Donald J. Trump @realDonaldTrump, 4/5/26, 8:03 AM
There’s nothing like a new war to make people forget about the existing one.
Since Donald Trump invented a reason to invade Iran, his attention has been drawn away from Russia’s ongoing decimation of Ukraine, allowing him to foist responsibility for aiding an ally — a valuable, strategically-situated, democratic bulwark between Russia and the NATO countries of Europe — onto those European nations that are themselves at greatest risk of possible future aggression from Vladimir Putin if Ukraine should fall.
. . . not to mention upending the entire world’s economic, trade, and diplomatic structures.
The first and most obvious effect of his ill-conceived adventure was one that any idiot could have foreseen — except for the one idiot who was calling the shots. That effect, of course, was Iran’s immediate closing of the Strait of Hormuz, thereby cutting off access to some 20-25% of the world’s supply of crude oil. Second was Iran’s knee-jerk response, which involved attacks on U.S. and allied facilities in neighboring Mideast countries — despite Trump’s delusional belief that an earlier attack had “obliterated” their nuclear capability and more recent activity had wiped out their entire military.
Asleep at the Switch
We’ve all seen him scrambling to do damage control, insisting that our NATO allies step in to pull him out of his self-made mess — apparently oblivious to the fact that NATO is a defensive alliance, not responsible for helping its member states to wage an offensive war. Wisely, they have all refused, choosing instead to bolster their own (and Ukraine’s) defenses.
So, to whom did he turn next? Would you believe, his old friend Vlad?
Yes, the same Vlad who has been sharing intelligence with Iran to aid in their defense and counter-offensive against Trump’s madness. The same Vlad who can now say, when accused of war crimes against civilians in Ukraine, that his buddy Donald is doing precisely the same thing in Iran. And the very same Vlad who is benefiting financially from the closing of the Hormuz Strait by welcoming new customers willing to pay for that good Russian crude because their usual supply from Iran has been . . . well, you know. (Not incidentally, that extra money in Russia’s coffers is proving useful in financing the continuation of Putin’s war against Ukraine.)
What’s that? You think Trump wouldn’t turn to Putin for help?
“When pigs fly” … you say?
Well, perhaps not directly. But what would you call it when he removes sanctions on three Russian-flagged commercial vessels previously linked to sanctioned Russian financial institutions involved in activities tied to that war in Ukraine?
Although a U.S. Treasury spokesperson said, “SDN [Treasury’s Specially Designated Nationals] List removals are not indicative of a broader shift in US-Russia policy,” not everyone is buying that disclaimer. [Alex Raufoglu, RFE/RL, April 1, 2026.]
Because just days later, the Treasury Department’s website noted that sanctions had also been lifted against one Mikhail Zadornov, a prominent Russian banker and former finance minister who had been on the sanctions list since 2022. Coincidentally — that is, if you believe in coincidence, which I do not when it comes to politics — an unnamed U.S. official also said that Zadornov’s delisting . . . guess what . . . did not reflect a larger change in Washington’s position on Russian sanctions.
Mikhail Zadornov
Sound familiar? It should. Without offering details, what this official said was:
“Like the imposition of sanctions, removal of sanctions on persons, or delisting, is a tool to realize U.S. foreign policy goals” . . . and that the goal of sanctions was not to punish but to “bring about a positive change in behavior” that is in the U.S. national interest. [Andrea Shalal, Reuters, April 3, 2026.]
So I guess that Mr. Zadornov has been deemed “rehabilitated,” and no longer a threat to U.S. interests. Like some petty thief who has found God in prison and is now eligible for parole. How nice for him!
In my world, that smacks of major sucking-up to Putin. My only question is: What is Trump getting in exchange for all of this largess?
I can hardly wait to find out . . . if we ever do.
Good news from Moldova — but not for Vladimir Putin.
Maia Sandu, President of Moldova
In 1991, following the dissolution of the Soviet Union, an inter-governmental bloc known as the Commonwealth of Independent States (CIS) was formed in its place, ostensibly to foster cooperation in economic, political and military matters, and to exercise certain powers related to the coordination of trade, finance, lawmaking, security, and the prevention of cross-border crime.
Eleven of the 15 former Soviet Republics signed on as full members of the CIS, with one more (Turkmenistan) becoming an associate state. The former Baltic Republics — Latvia, Lithuania and Estonia — refused to join; and Georgia formally withdrew its membership in 2008, with Ukraine following suit in 2018.
And last week it was announced that Moldova was also leaving the CIS, choosing instead to fully align with the West. It is already a candidate for EU membership, and, while retaining constitutionally neutral status, maintains cooperation with NATO.
Though a small country, Moldova is strategically significant by reason of its location between embattled Ukraine and EU/NATO member Romania. Its formal move away from the Russian sphere of influence and toward a Western alliance is vital to its own defense, and to Europe’s constant struggle for the survival of democracy, as Vladimir Putin continues his attempt to push westward.
Eastern Europe
Congratulations to the people of Moldova and to their President, Maia Sandu, on this truly momentous occasion. Welcome to the West.
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