1/4/26: A Tribute and a Reminiscence

It is a quirky habit of mine, every now and then, to Google people from my past — classmates, co-workers, business associates or former neighbors — usually because something has unexpectedly brought them to mind.

That happened today, when I was reminiscing about an event from 1990 about which I had posted nearly three years ago. The person in question was a Russian gentleman — a former Soviet diplomat, lawyer and author who, after the collapse of the Soviet Union, moved permanently to the United States and joined a prestigious Washington law firm.


Sadly, but not surprisingly, what I found was his obituary from a year ago this month; he had passed away on January 20, 2025, at the age of 93. (I have to wonder whether the stress and shock of the inauguration that day was just too much for him. But I digress.)

We were not what you would call close personal friends, though our brief acquaintance was certainly a pleasant one . . . cut short when I fell into disfavor with his embassy. But that’s a whole other tale.

His name was Sergey Chetverikov, and this is our story, reprinted from February 16, 2023:

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Ch. 10 – The Confederate Air Force

The War Between the States — more popularly known as the Civil War, though there doesn’t seem to have been anything even remotely civil about it — ended just about 158 years ago, on April 9, 1865, at Appomattox, Virginia. But history cannot be erased entirely, despite growing efforts to disclaim parts of it; and the use of “Confederate” still pops up from time to time in the American South.

Surrender at Appomattox

One day in 1990, an attorney friend of mine from Washington, DC, Bill Anawaty, was in his home state of Texas, driving along a highway near Harlingen, when he spotted a sign directing travelers to something called the Confederate Air Force. The imaginative name caught his attention, and on a whim he decided to check it out. What he found was so totally unexpected that it led him to undertake a project that would ultimately involve a group of World War II pilots, diplomats from the Soviet Embassy in Washington, another attorney from DC, and yours truly.

A naturally gregarious individual, Bill went directly to the CAF’s office and began asking questions of some of the people there. What he learned was that the CAF (today known by the more politically correct name of Commemorative Air Force) had begun in 1957 with the purchase and restoration of a single P-51 Mustang by a small group of ex-service pilots, and had since grown to include an example of virtually every aircraft that flew during World War II. [For more information on the fascinating history and mission of the CAF, check out their website at commemorativeairforce.org.]

Timing is everything in life, and the timing of Bill’s impulsive detour could not have been more fortuitous. The 50th anniversary of the start of America’s World War II Lend-Lease program was coming up in 1991, and he had just stumbled upon a group of WWII veterans, with a collection of WWII planes, performing WWII-themed air shows around the country. Why not take the show across the Atlantic to Europe, Bill thought, where the Lend-Lease program had actually taken place half a century earlier? What an amazing hands-across-the-sea celebration that would be!

Poster for Lend-Lease

Never one to let grass grow under his feet, Bill immediately began looking into the possibilities. And as his excitement grew, so did his vision. Along with Great Britain and France, he reasoned that we couldn’t ignore the Soviet Union, which had been one of our staunchest allies in the fight against Nazi Germany. And who better to make the initial contact with the Soviet Embassy than his Russia-obsessed friend: me?

Another attorney friend, former American Enterprise Institute president Bill Baroody, signed on, and the two Bills set about planning and seeking logistical and financial support for the project. At the same time, I contacted my friend at the Soviet Embassy — the aide to the Ambassador mentioned in last week’s Chapter 9 — to determine what the level of interest might be on their end. I never dreamed that the mere mention of WWII planes would have such a dramatic effect. It turned out that my friend — let’s call him Dima — was crazy about planes, and about history in general. And when I told him that we had also discussed inviting the Soviet Ambassador to accompany us on a visit to the CAF in Texas, the deal was as good as sealed. Dima took the plan to the Ambassador, who loved the idea, and dates were chosen for a trip to Texas in July.

But, as we all know, the best-laid plans . . .

As apparently happened all too frequently, the Ambassador’s schedule changed at the 11th hour, and he — accompanied by a terribly disappointed Dima — was needed elsewhere. But interest in the Lend-Lease project was still high, and the then Minister-Counselor/Deputy Ambassador, Sergey Chetverikov, was given the pleasure of taking the Ambassador’s place, with Mrs. Chetverikov to accompany him. Second only in rank to the Ambassador himself, Sergei was no slouch when it came to diplomacy. And he and his wife were a delightful and fascinating couple, who contributed greatly to what turned out to be a memorable few days.

Being the closest thing our trio had to a Russia expert, it fell to me to figure out the legal and diplomatic implications of traveling from state to state with a Soviet diplomat, and then to make the appropriate arrangements. Since diplomats and staff members from the Embassy were not allowed to travel more than twenty-five miles from Washington without special permission, it was necessary to begin my inquiries with the U.S. Department of State. Talk about opening a bureaucratic can of worms! Not only did I have to answer more questions than a new patient in a doctor’s office; I was also told that I was to be the individual responsible for the welfare, safety, and good behavior of the Chetverikovs. So if something were to happen to either of them on this trip . . . Well, I didn’t even want to think about that.


Among the slew of questions asked were several having to do with our means of travel and our actual schedule. Bill Anawaty had made all the travel arrangements, so airline schedules were no problem. But, to cap off the day at the CAF in Harlingen, he had thoughtfully booked a huge duplex apartment for a two-night stay on South Padre Island, in a building directly on the shores of the Gulf of Mexico, with its own private strip of beach. The man at the State Department asked how we were going to get from the airport to Harlingen and then to South Padre, and when I said we would be driving, he wanted to know the make, model, color, and tag number of the car. But I couldn’t answer that one. Bill had reserved a rental car, and we wouldn’t have those details until we picked it up at the airport. So I was instructed to call a certain number at State and report in once we had arrived at Houston Airport and gotten the vehicle.

Sounds good, right? Well, first of all, this was at a time before cell phones were attached to everyone’s hands, and it was anyone’s guess as to whether I would even be able to sneak off to a pay phone. I did manage to find one easily enough, but no one answered at the number I had been given, and there was no voice mail at that number, and no one to take a message. I even tried reaching my contact through the main State Department number, but still no luck. So I shrugged it off and decided to try again later. Their mistake; their problem. But Sergey was very observant and noticed my telephone activity. Irritated at the State Department official’s failure to be where he was supposed to be when he was supposed to be there, I decided to let the team in on the screw-up. Sergey merely rolled his eyes, shook his head, and smiled. He was well acquainted with bureaucratic bull . . . er, nonsense.

In the rush to get to the CAF, that call never did take place. But somehow we were still on someone’s radar, as evidenced by the man and woman — dressed in business suits despite the blistering hot weather — lingering in the CAF hangar, ostensibly eyeing the planes but clearly far more interested in our group as we were given a tour by our new CAF friends. Sergey also spotted the couple, and he and I had a good laugh at their expense. I never did figure out whether they were “our” people or “his,” but my guess is they were ours. Subtle. Really subtle.


That day was spent on an airfield and in the gigantic hangar in what I call 99-square weather: 99 degrees, with 99% humidity. It was brutal. We did take a break from the heat in midday, when we met to discuss our vision for the European tour, and were treated to a lovely lunch (in an air-conditioned dining hall) by the great airmen of the CAF — all World War II veterans, of course — followed by a flight in a plane of our choice. The two Bills and Mrs. Chetverikov passed on the offer, and only Sergey and I opted for a flight — he in a fighter plane, and I in a biplane with the passenger seat in front of the pilot, and just above tree-top level. I felt as though I was piloting the plane, and I could have stayed in the air forever — or until we ran out of fuel — whichever came first. But as exhilarating as it was, I kept wondering how quickly I could get across the border into Mexico in the event Sergey’s plane took a nosedive into the ground and the full force of two governments came looking for me.

World War II Biplane

One other nerve-wracking incident occurred when Sergey decided to go swimming in the Gulf the next morning. I don’t know whether the water there is always that choppy, but again I was plagued by nightmarish mental images of his being carried out to sea on a giant wave. I was beginning to feel like Walter Mitty with a death wish! But Sergey was a strong swimmer and emerged from the sea unscathed and refreshed. We spent the remainder of the day relaxing, playing chess, eating, drinking, and discussing every controversial subject imaginable.

All too soon the two days had passed and it was time to leave for the long drive back to the airport. Sergey asked if it would be possible to see the Mexican border, as he had never been to Mexico. He knew he would not be able to cross the border that day either, but he just wanted to be able to say he had seen it, and perhaps to buy some Mexican souvenirs. Bill Anawaty knew of a place at Brownsville where the Rio Grande River was quite narrow and nearly dry at that time of the year, and there was an actual border crossing, so off we went.

The crossing at that point consisted of a pedestrian bridge, over which Mexican workers would come into the U.S. each morning to their jobs, and return home at the end of the day. There were no souvenir shops — or shops of any kind — within sight, so I approached the lone Border Patrol officer and asked if he knew of any on this side of the river. He said there were none, but that we would find plenty if we just walked across the bridge into Mexico. I explained to him that we couldn’t do that, as two of our party were a Soviet diplomat and his wife from Washington, and that they did not have clearance to leave the country.

Now, our modern-day problems along the U.S.-Mexican border are legion and well-known, but nothing I’ve heard lately can compare with the response I received from that officer. He simply shrugged nonchalantly and said, “Oh, that’s all right — they can go across. No problem.”

NO PROBLEM??????? What the hell had he been smoking??!!!


I gave him my best “mother-who-just-caught-her-child-sneaking-a joint” look, and said, “Well, it may not be a problem for you, but it damn well would be a problem for the Soviet Embassy, and it would be a problem for your bosses, and it would be a problem for the State Department — and it would be a gigantic problem for me!” Sure, this was long before 9-11, so things were somewhat more relaxed, but still . . . I tried to explain the legal and diplomatic implications to him, but he just didn’t get it. So we turned around, got back into our rental car, and continued on our way to the airport. I have no idea whether we were still under surveillance at that point, but if we were — and whoever they were — I can just imagine the nail-biting that went on in their vehicle when the Chetverikovs walked right up to that border crossing!

Luckily, we found a Mexican restaurant along the highway with a nice little gift shop. It was between lunch and dinner hours and they were officially closed; but when we introduced ourselves, they happily invited us in, went back to the kitchen, and prepared a wonderful, authentic Mexican lunch for us. So we were able to satisfy our appetites for food and souvenirs, and to meet some lovely, generous people, before continuing on our way.

We made it to the airport with plenty of time to spare, and also in time to witness the very swift, well-executed arrest of a young man, on charges unknown. Drugs? Smuggling? Mass murder? It’s always something, isn’t it?

Our flight home was smooth, except for the mother with the crying baby seated next to me, whom I did manage to calm down for a while by making funny faces and letting him play with my keys. Oh . . . and there was the encounter with the Stealth aircraft. At some point during the flight, the pilot announced that if we hurried and looked out the left side of the plane, we might catch a glimpse of a Stealth fighter passing in the opposite direction. Being seated on the right side, and with a baby on my lap, I didn’t even try. But Sergey did, and was disappointed to have missed it. Then he said to me that of course there was no way we could have seen it anyway, since it was a Stealth and thus invisible.


Excuse me? Did I hear that correctly? I have to assume he was joking, right?

Well, we finally landed safely at National Airport, and I was able to return the baby to his mother and Mr. and Mrs. Chetverikov back into the hands of their Soviet keepers. I also reported in to the State Department the following morning. They never asked why they hadn’t heard from me earlier, and I wasn’t about to bring it up.

The disappointing end to this story, though, is that, despite our continuing efforts and the enthusiastic backing of all of the countries involved, the financing for the project never came through. It turned out to be horrifically expensive to try to transport all of those planes and people over to Europe and from country to country, with no guarantee that the shows would earn enough to cover the costs. Which is why you never heard anything about it, of course. But it was a wonderful idea, and would have been a grand adventure.

It wasn’t a total loss, however. New friendships were forged, with the wonderful airmen of the CAF, and with the Chetverikovs (who later chose to stay in the United States, where Sergey — an accredited attorney — joined the renowned law firm of Hogan Lovells in Washington).

Of course, I had no idea at that point that a different sort of adventure awaited me a year later, in the summer of 1991. So tune in again next week, please, for my tale of castles, water shutdowns, German tourists, power failures, beer halls, gypsies, dogs, Paul Simon, and the Czech President. And arguably the most beautiful, magical city in the world: Prague.

TTFN,
Brendochka
2/16/23

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And so today, with fond memories, I bid a final farewell to Sergey . . . now, I presume, enjoying his eternal flight above the clouds.


Just sayin’ . . .

Brendochka
1/4/26

1/4/26: To the People of Iran: Be Careful What You Wish For

It was just a matter of time: the worsening economic and human rights conditions in Iran finally drove the citizens to end 2025 and begin 2026 with mass protests demanding change, during which at least eight people are reported to have been killed.


And Donald Trump — ever on the lookout for an opportunity to stick his nose in where it doesn’t belong, but where he smells money to be made — has warned the Iranian authorities against killing peaceful protesters, saying that Washington “will come to their rescue,” and that “We are locked and loaded and ready to go.” [Jaroslav Lukiv, BBC, January 2, 2026.]

Two days ago, that may have sounded like just another of his manic midnight tweets. But yesterday changed all that, when he made good on his threats to invade Venezuela . . . even going so far as to kidnap President Maduro and his wife.

Though his rationale is that his action against Venezuela is part of his war on illegal drugs and the need to bring down a murderous regime, everyone knows what it’s really about: it’s about the massive oil reserves that Trump and his cronies will now “invest” in — and profit hugely from — while Trump “runs” Venezuela “until such time as we can do a safe, proper and judicious transition.” [BBC, January 3, 2026.]


Like Venezuela, Iran also sits on huge crude oil reserves — reportedly the fourth largest in the world — as well as substantial supplies of natural gas. And that is a temptation that would be difficult, if not impossible, for him to resist. On Friday, January 2nd, he posted on Truth Social:

“If Iran shots [sic] and violently kills peaceful protesters, which is their custom, the United States of America will come to their rescue.” [Id.]

But Iran is not Venezuela. Supreme Leader Ayatollah Ali Khamenei responded that Trump should “be careful” of potentially causing chaos throughout the Middle East. And his adviser, Ali Larijani, issued this additional warning:

“Trump should know that US interference in this internal matter would mean destabilising the entire region and destroying America’s interests.” [Id.]

Ayatollah Ali Khamenei

Still, in an eerie echo of the 1979 protests that expanded into a full-fledged revolution and overthrew the last Shah, the Iranian protesters have not been silenced. One protester, speaking anonymously, told the BBC that they have been asking for US support for years, because the security forces “. . . are afraid and they shake to the bones when Mr Trump says something . . . [They] believe that if Mr Trump says something, he will do it . . . [and they] know if anything happens, they would have to take the consequences.” [Id.]

But those idealistic young protesters may be pinning their hopes on an America that used to bring freedom and democracy to the oppressed peoples of the world . . . not the bastardized version of America that has emerged under Trump’s regime.

I’m not suggesting the Iranian people should give up the fight for reforms; but they may want to rethink the best way to achieve their goals. And inviting Donald Trump into their home . . . well, let’s just say it might not be the answer to their prayers.


Consider what he’s already done to his own country.

Just sayin’ . . .

Brendochka
1/4/26

1/4/26: Quote of the Day: On Villainy and Deception

When it comes to commentary on the most vile instincts of mankind, there is no better source than The Bard.


In the wake of yesterday’s headlines concerning the shocking events in Venezuela, I doubt that today’s quotation requires any explanation:


“And thus I clothe my naked villainy
With odd old ends, stolen out of Holy Writ,
And seem a saint when most I play the devil.”

– William Shakespeare, Richard III, Act I, Scene 3

And the “naked villain” of the day likewise needs no introduction.


Happy New Year, world!

Just sayin’ . . .

Brendochka
1/4/26

1/4/26: Putin’s Hostages – Bring Them Home, Week 104: Have We Lost Our Leverage?

On this two-year anniversary of the start of my weekly tribute to the political prisoners being held hostage by the tyrannical regimes of Vladimir Putin and his allies, I find my righteous anger at those regimes tempered somewhat by feelings of shame and guilt . . . not from any overt acts of my own, but on behalf of my country.

For yesterday morning, I awoke — as we all did — to the unfathomable news that forces of the United States military had, without provocation and in violation of international law, invaded the sovereign nation of Venezuela, forcibly kidnapped its president and his wife, and transported them to the U.S. mainland for prosecution on drug charges.

Yesterday, my country — the nation founded on the tenets of peace and democracy — became the hostage-taker. A public announcement from Donald Trump declared that “we” — meaning he — would hereafter “run” Venezuela until a “safe, proper and judicious transition” could be effected.

Thus, the self-proclaimed “President of Peace” officially became the Fourth Horseman of the Apocalypse, raining war and devastation upon the Earth — and, I fear, upon the hostages held in those faraway prisons by Putin and his minions. For we have joined the league of those who trade in human misery, and place no value on the sanctity of life. Who, then, will be willing to negotiate with the U.S. government, when we can no longer be trusted to do so in good faith? What have we left to offer as a guarantee of our supposedly noble intentions?

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But that is no reason for me, or any of us, to abandon those prisoners still praying for release. And so, with the addition of this week’s newest political hostages, here they are for the first time in 2026:

Victims of Greed:

The President, First Lady, and citizens of Venezuela

Europeans Under Threat:

The people of NATO and EU member states

Prisoners of War:

The 19,500 Kidnapped Ukrainian Children
The People of Ukraine

Immigrant Detainees in Russia:

Migrants from the Central Asian nations of Kazakhstan, Kyrgyzstan,
Tajikistan, Turkmenistan and Uzbekistan

Endangered Exiles:


Mikita Losik
Yulia Navalnaya
Countless Journalists and Other Dissidents

Political Prisoners:

In Azerbaijan:

The “Azerbaijan 7”:
— Farid Mehralizada
— Ulvi Hasanli
— Sevinj Abbasova (Vagifqiai)
— Mahammad Kekalov
— Hafiz Babali
— Nargiz Absalamova
— Elnara Gasimova

In Belarus:

Andrei Chapiuk
Uladzimir Labkovich
Andrzej Poczobut
Marfa Rabkova
Valiantsin Stafanovic
Yuras Zyankovich

In Georgia:

Mzia Amaglobeli

In China:

Chenyue Mao (American)

In Russia:

The “Crimea 8”:
— Oleg Antipov
— Artyom Azatyan
— Georgy Azatyan
— Aleksandr Bylin
— Roman Solomko
— Artur Terchanyan
— Dmitry Tyazhelykh
— Vladimir Zloba

James Scott Rhys Anderson (British)
David Barnes (American)
Gordon Black (American)
Hayden Davies (British)
Antonina Favorskaya
Konstantin Gabov
Robert Gilman (American)
Stephen James Hubbard (American)
Sergey Karelin
Timur Kishukov
Vadim Kobzev
Darya Kozyreva
Artyom Kriger
Michael Travis Leake (American)
Aleksei Liptser
Grigory Melkonyants
Nika Novak
Leonid Pshenychnov (in Russian-occupied Crimea)
Nadezhda Rossinskaya (a.k.a. Nadin Geisler)
Sofiane Sehili (French)
Igor Sergunin
Dmitry Shatresov
Robert Shonov
Grigory Skvortsov
Eugene Spector (American)
Laurent Vinatier
Robert Romanov Woodland (American)

Please do not lose hope. The one constant in life is change . . . and the next surprise may turn out to be a better one.


Just sayin’ . . .

Brendochka
1/4/26

1/3/26: I Don’t Even Know Where to Begin

My first impulse this morning was to start with a mea culpa to the people of Venezuela . . . but I didn’t launch the invasion.


Then I considered a plea for forgiveness to all of America’s traditional allies . . . but I had no part in the decision.

Hell . . . I didn’t even vote for him. Not in 2016, or 2020, or 2024.

I even gave a fleeting thought to renouncing — symbolically, at least — my treasured U.S. citizenship. But I found that to be impossible. I was born here, and I have spent a lifetime loving my country, warts and all. I have verbally defended her to people from other lands who saw only her faults, and proudly pointed out her many incomparable virtues.

And, despite everything we are experiencing, I continue to hold out hope for her salvation and renewal when these dark days are behind us at last.

But — short of putting my fist through a door, or running down the street screaming “I’m mad as hell and I’m not gonna take it anymore” — I need an outlet for the shock, the anger, and the grief I am feeling today. And so I write.


My country — my America — does not start wars. We do not invade countries that are not threatening our borders. We do not kidnap heads of other governments. We do not pretend to be engaged in a “war on drugs” when the real target is oil.

But that is precisely what he — not “we” — has done. But “we” are complicit, because we didn’t stop him. The signs were there when he blew the first suspected drug boat out of the water, taking the lives of his first victims. His verbal threats could not have been more explicit. And his intentions were made clearer when he deployed the USS GERALD R. FORD to the waters off the coast of Venezuela.

No one — not the Supreme Court, not our elected members of Congress, and not his supposed “advisers” — has held him accountable for a single one of his illegal, unconstitutional actions over the past ten months. So why wouldn’t he think he had carte blanche to carry his madness to the next level?


This man who calls himself the “Peace President”; who preaches to other world leaders about legality and human rights; who claims to have ended seven or eight or nine conflicts around the world; who threw a tantrum when he was denied the Nobel Peace Prize . . . this person has now positioned himself as the single most denigrated head of state on the planet.

When even the worst of the worst — tyrannical regimes like Russia, Iran, North Korea and China — have denounced his action, one would expect that he might be having second thoughts. Instead, he declares that the U.S. will “run” Venezuela “until such time as we can do a safe, proper and judicious transition.” [BBC, January 3, 2026.]

Where have we heard those words before? Oh, yes . . . from Vladimir Putin, in regard to his conditions for ending the war in Ukraine.

And what about our allies — the countries of Europe, Canada, Japan, and others? Their silence thus far has been deafening, and understandably so. Just when they must have been thinking he couldn’t get any worse . . .

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So, what is the solution? If I knew that, I expect I would be the front runner for next year’s Nobel Peace Prize. But I do know what my idea of justice would be; and it would involve a “safe, proper and judicious transition,” right here in the United States.

For God’s sake, Congress . . . wake up, and stand up, before it’s too late! This is your moment.

God Bless America

Just sayin’ . . .

Brendochka
1/3/26

1/3/26: Quote of the Day: The Truth Shall Set You Free

Hannah Arendt was a Jewish intellectual in Nazi Germany. Arrested by the Gestapo, she escaped on foot through Czechoslovakia and on to France, and finally to the United States.

Hannah Arendt (1906-75)

She had experienced the early days of the living hell, later to become known as the Holocaust, created by the regime of a monster too evil to be considered a human being. And in 1951, she tried to warn the world that tyranny does not begin when people believe the lies they are told; it begins when people stop believing in anything at all. She wrote:

“The ideal subject of totalitarian rule is not the convinced Nazi or the convinced communist, but the people for whom the distinction between fact and fiction . . . no longer holds.”

– Hannah Arendt, Lessons for Our Times


She argued that our ability to resist totalitarianism lies in our capacity to think, to question, to listen, to demand evidence . . . because once we stop caring about what is real, we have surrendered our freedom.

Hannah Arendt died before the advent of the internet and social media. How much more urgently her words resonate in today’s cyber world . . . and how much more imperative it is that we heed them.


Just sayin’ . . .

Brendochka
1/3/26

1/3/26: When All Else Fails, There’s Always Plan B

Variously known as “The Art of Deflection,” “The Blame Game,” or simply “Lying Through Your Teeth,” Plan B is a time-honored device used by tyrants everywhere, from the six-year-old bully on the playground declaring “he hit me first,” to the politician seeking to avoid a scandal, to the barbaric head of state in need of an excuse to start — or prolong — a war.

“They started it!”

And no one does it better than Vladimir Putin. Using his contorted view of Russian/Ukrainian history as an excuse, he sought to satisfy his lust for renewal of the Russian Empire by invading and occupying the Crimean Peninsula in 2014.

In 2022, his bizarre claim that the Russian-speaking population of Ukraine were begging to be rescued from oppression by an imaginary “nazi” leadership was the rationale for his full-force attack on the eastern Donbas region, and subsequently the entirety of Ukraine . . . an all-out war of attrition, labeled by him a “special military operation,” that continues to this day.

Ukraine: Being “rescued” by Russia

For four years, as the free world’s leaders have come to Ukraine’s defense while simultaneously seeking to negotiate a solution to the conflict, Putin has stalled, promised, reneged, and deflected time and time again, repeatedly attempting to shift the blame for the carnage to NATO, the EU, and to Ukraine itself.

And as 2025 drew to a close, and Ukrainian President Volodymyr Zelensky offered a revised, 20-point peace plan for consideration by the Russian side, Putin came up with yet another ingenious charge to levy against Zelensky: he claimed that a Ukrainian “strike” on his residence at Valdai in the Novgorod Oblast of Russia — which cannot be verified as having happened at all — was an assassination attempt against him personally.

But the Kremlin doesn’t need proof; just putting it out there was enough for Russian Foreign Minister Lavrov, who quickly issued a statement reiterating their original immovable, one-sided demands for a cessation of hostilities. And he even had a little help from Donald Trump, who said he had been told about the “attack” by Putin during their last telephone conversation, which had made him very “angry” . . . implying that if Putin said it happened, it must be true.

“Putin told me . . .”

Ukraine — always more than happy to take credit for any real assaults on Russian forces or territory — categorically denies this claim of an attack on Valdai. And George Barros, a Russia analyst at the Institute for the Study of War (ISW), said in an exclusive interview:

“There’s no evidence that Ukraine conducted any kind of strike targeting Putin’s residence in Valdai. It’s fairly telling [that] the Kremlin spokesman even rejected the notion that Moscow should provide evidence. Kremlin officials are using the alleged Ukrainian strike in Novgorod Oblast to justify Russia’s continued insistence that both Ukraine and the West capitulate to Russia’s original demands from 2021 and 2022.” [Alex Raufoglu, Kyiv Post, January 1, 2026.] [Bold emphasis is mine.]

Deflect . . . blame . . . lie. They all do it: the autocrats, the plutocrats, the kleptocrats. And Vladimir Putin does it better than most. But, like the mythical boy who cried wolf, no one believes him any longer — no one, that is, with a functioning brain.


Just sayin’ . . .

Brendochka
1/3/25

1/2/26: Quote(s) of the Day: Multiple Choice

I have known people throughout the years who, from as far back as they can remember, have planned their lives with excruciating care, and with great success. They seem always to have known what they wanted in life: education, career, marriage, children, retirement . . . every detail clearly envisioned and plotted. And all along the way, for the most part things have worked out well for them.

My life, on the other hand, seems to have been more reactive than proactive, guided by the forces of chance: making decisions and choices based on current conditions or opportunities as they arose. And, as with most people, some of those choices have proven more fortuitous than others.

Which road to take?

With the transition to yet another new year, I’ve been thinking back on some of my life choices, and how different things might have been if I had gone in some other direction. So — while it’s obviously too late to change things — I went searching for some words of wisdom to satisfy myself that I didn’t screw up too badly. And I found these two opposing, though equally defensible, points of view:


“The best way to predict your future is to create it.”
Abraham Lincoln

Abraham Lincoln

. . . and . . .


“I never think of the future – it comes soon enough.”
– Albert Einstein

Albert Einstein

Wow! Two brilliant individuals: one with the confidence to believe he could be the master of his own fate; the other, more adventurous, with the courage to face whatever came his way. But which was more logical?

And then I found a third quote, from an American author of fantasy and science fiction, which struck me as the most reasonable of all:


“The only thing that makes life possible is permanent, intolerable uncertainty: not knowing what comes next.”
– Ursula K. Le Guin

Ursula Le Guin (1929-2018)

Which, I suppose, is what I’ve always done: worked hard, tried to make rational choices while still having as much fun as possible, and dealt with the ups and downs as they came my way.

And isn’t that what most of us do? The future, after all, is maddeningly unpredictable, and not always ours to control.

All things considered, I suppose I could have done better; but I could also have done a hell of a lot worse.

Just sayin’ . . .

Brendochka
1/2/26

1/2/25: Christmas in Canada With the Feenstras

I’m ready for a little cheer to start the new year, and I’ve found it in a Christmas video from the Feenstra family, back — for the time being, at least — in their home province of Ontario, Canada.

Christmas Morning

After the long, long flight across Europe, the Atlantic Ocean, and a sizable chunk of North America, the family had about ten days to catch up on some sleep, spend time with the grandparents and cousins . . . and prepare for Christmas.

Last year’s holidays were spent in their new home on the farm in Nizhny Novgorod, Russia, with new friends, good food, and a focus on the spiritual meaning of Christmas. This year, back for a visit with their extended family, Anneesa’s parents set the theme by introducing the littlest children — and re-introducing the older ones — to a typically Canadian Christmas, filled with the sounds of activities and laughter and the aromas of freshly-baked cookies and a newly-cut tree.

While Arend busied himself with carpentry and electrical work for his in-laws and one of his own brothers, Anneesa took the kids sledding on her favorite childhood snow hill . . .


Grandma and the kids baked dozens of cookies . . .


There was always an ample supply of nourishment . . .


A tree to be brought home and trimmed . . .


Grandma’s miniature Christmas village to be set up . . .


Time out for a visit with Arend’s even larger family, who had commandeered the local school to hold them all . . .


Games to be played . . .


And, at last, gifts to be exchanged on Christmas morning.

Big Brother Ben
Baby Maddie
Warm Clothes
And, of course, toys

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But of all the hustle and bustle, one activity — seemingly unique to this family — that stood out for me was a group art project organized by Grandma, who exhibited an unsuspected creative bent. For the two large windows in the living room, she made two huge drawings of a village on heavy-duty rolled paper. She and eldest granddaughter Cora then took the drawings outdoors, where they taped the perfectly-sized sheets, picture side facing indoors, to the exterior of the windows . . .

Grandma’s Artwork
“What are they doing out there?”

The eight children were then given pens containing a sort of liquid white chalk, with which they each traced a section of the drawings onto the inside of the windows . . .

Hard at work

. . . producing these beautiful murals:

The Finished Product

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It was at that point in the video — watching eight children ranging in age from 17 to just 3 years old, engaged together in a creative activity, enjoying each other’s company, wrapped in the warmth of a loving family — that I finally came to understand the essence of the Feenstra clan.

Their religious and political beliefs and their chosen lifestyle are vastly different from mine. Their decision to live in Russia is something I will never fully comprehend or agree with. But their devotion to one another, and their ability to find true joy in the smallest of life’s gifts . . . these are the qualities that first drew me to them, that have impelled me to follow their progress over the past two years, and that inspire my admiration and envy.

For, no matter where they live, they have each other; and that bond gives them the strength to face whatever challenges life may bring. And that is indeed something to be thankful for.

So, for the coming year and beyond, I wish Arend, Anneesa, and their entire family good health, prosperity . . . and the ability to differentiate between fact and fiction in their adopted homeland.

С новым годом (Happy New Year), Feenstras!


Just sayin’ . . .

Brendochka
1/2/26

1/1/26: If It Wasn’t Bad, It Wasn’t News

Happy 2026, everyone! The “happy” part, of course, is finally seeing an end to what has been a truly horrific twelve months for the world.

As I have spent the last few days reviewing my posts throughout 2025, my already entrenched belief that “if it ain’t bad, it ain’t news” was sadly reinforced. If I tried to touch on every newsworthy item today, this retrospective would be too long for anyone to bother reading — especially for those who may have gone a little overboard on the New Year’s Eve celebrating last night.

So, here are just some of the highlights (or lowlights) — not necessarily in chronological order, since many of them just kept going, and going, and going . . .

“And away we go!”

Russia’s War in Ukraine. Throughout its fourth year, Vladimir Putin’s “special military operation” — or more accurately, his war of attrition — against neighboring Ukraine has intensified despite punishing sanctions and diplomatic efforts at a settlement by dozens of the world’s leaders. The longest European conflict since World War II, it seems destined never to end . . . or, at least, not until one side or the other is completely demolished.

Kyiv, Ukraine

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The War in Gaza. What began as Israel’s rightful retaliation for the October 7, 2023, attack by Hamas on Israeli civilians has devolved into an ongoing, vengeful assault by Benjamin Netanyahu on the citizens of Gaza. Even the staunchest allies of Israel continue to be sickened by the maelstrom of death and destruction being written off in the name of retribution. Whatever happened to a proportional response?

Gaza

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The Emergence of DOGE. A whole new government entity — the so-called Department of Government Efficiency — was quickly created at the beginning of the second Trump term, to be administered by a billionaire with a chainsaw and operated by a slew of prepubescent neophytes with a mandate to cut costs by destroying every iota of system and order essential to the functioning of the very government that was paying their salaries. So now, nothing works as it should.

Cutting Jobs with Glee

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The Gilding of the Lily. In Donald Trump’s vision of a new “Golden Age” for America, everything must (a) bear his name, and (b) be slathered in gold, gold leaf, or gold paint. And so we now have the Trump Institute of Peace, the Trump-Kennedy Center, a Trump coin, and plans for a completely useless Trump-class battleship. On the glitter side, there are all the shiny chatchki in the Oval Office and the rest of the White House (what’s left of it), and drawings of a blindingly-gilded, $400 million ballroom. The concept of “less is more” seems to have been lost somewhere between Mar-a-Lago and New York’s Trump Tower.

The Trump Ballroom

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ICE on the Streets. No, not a winter weather event. What started as a raging, psychotic assault on America’s immigrant population, heavily armed and often masked Immigration and Customs Enforcement (ICE) agents began appearing in cities and towns across the country, grabbing and detaining people at will, without due process, based on nothing more than their physical appearance. When innocent citizens protested, Trump sent in reinforcements from the National Guard to cities like Los Angeles, Chicago, Portland, and even the nation’s capital, to “protect” the ICE agents. Martial law descended on our democracy, despite court orders declaring the administration’s actions blatantly illegal.

How many tough guys does it take . . . ?

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The Epstein Papers. There is no need to explain this one; we’ve all read the reports ad nauseam. Yechhh!

No need for introductions; you know who they are.

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Natural Disasters. Floods, earthquakes, volcano eruptions, droughts, melting glaciers, disappearing coral reefs, wildfires . . . all of biblical proportions. And in Washington, an official denial of the existence of climate change. Genius.

A Slow Death

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Man-made Disasters. Starvation due to cuts in aid; the return of measles and other plagues because of ludicrous untruths about vaccinations; power shortages because someone doesn’t like wind farms . . . to name just a few.

Just one of millions

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And then there are the . . .

People We’ve Lost. In light of all of the foregoing, perhaps these are the lucky ones to have left this “mortal coil.” But we are the poorer for their absence:

Pope Francis
Actor Gene Hackman and his wife, Betsy Arakawa
Boxer George Foreman
Wrestler Hulk Hogan
Epstein/Maxwell victim Virginia Giuffre
Musician Brian Wilson
Musician and TV star Ozzy Osbourne
Journalist Bill Moyers
Astronaut Jim Lovell
Actor Robert Redford
Actor Malcolm-Jamal Warner
Filmmaker David Lynch
Actress Dame Joan Plowright
Fashion designer Giorgio Armani
Conservationist Jane Goodall
Actress Diane Keaton
Actor Val Kilmer
Actress Claudia Cardinale
Former Vice President Dick Cheney
Playwright Tom Stoppard
Architect Frank Gehry
Actress Brigitte Bardot
Actor Graham Greene
Actor-director Rob Reiner and his wife, Michele Singer Reiner

To them, and to any others I may unintentionally have overlooked . . .

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It’s been quite a year, to say the least — and all the more remarkable for the dearth of happy events to offset the bad stuff. I, for one, am glad to see the back of it.

But on the up-side, through all of the difficulties, we’re still able to say:

“WE MADE IT!”

Just sayin’ . . .

Brendochka
1/1/26